Dain
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Yeah, I left him a voice mail, hoping to just talk to him. I'm not out to scold him or what not, but just wanted to see what's up lately as this doesn't make any sense to me. Why would someone who is a respected member of the community ruin that respect? I considered him a friend and entrusted him with admin privileges as NA (which I've since revoked for obvious reasons). This is definitely a hard pill to swallow for me as I really trusted Hounder.
I, too, understand that times can get rough, but stealing from your friends is not the answer. Had Hounder just asked me, I would have loaned him money to get out of a rut. I'd do that for a friend I trust even if it were against my better judgment (ie, knowing I likely wouldn't get paid back).
For me, it's not about the money he owes, it's about trying to pull a fast one on a community of individuals that trusted him. Granted, I'd like to get my $100 back, but more importantly, I want him to make right with all the people involved.
This community is forgiving, as we've seen to an extent with Nick, but it takes more than talk -- Hounder needs to fix what's broken, then *earn* forgiveness, which can take a long time.
-Dain
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